Thursday, January 13, 2011

Ways to cheering up a stressed out boyfriend

hehe..hi!its not to late to wish all of u, Happy new year rite?hows ur day?weekend?haha..i really appreciate the last weekend where i went to my bf home. His mom and dad asked me to enjoyed my weekend there. Act i really suprised and nervous gile bab la, for those who know the story before this will understand it.rite?hehe..but, Alhamdulillah.. For now, everything was follow on our la kan?hehe.. For Mr.Azhari @ my lovely bf, i really love u so0 much. Thanks for all those things. Lets start to our plan. Takut tak cukup mase lak nt!hehe..
Also for my family and becoming family, love u all to much too!Mak, Kak Yat, Azim, Irfan, Pcik, Mcik, Arif and Amir!

ok, back to my title. Let learn how to cheer up your boyfriend while he getting stressed!

Men are usually stressed out due to performance related issues in their jobs, studies or finances, there are many other causes of stress too. Here are few tips on what you can do to cheer up your boyfriend when he is in the blues or stressed out.

1-Don’t get alarmed when he is stressed
Many girls get fearful or upset when they see their boyfriend in a bad mood. You need to give him support by staying cool and composed. Don’t make things worse by taking it personally. That last thing he wants when he is stressed is for you to pick a fight with him. Guys are pretty adept at handling their own problems, what he will appreciate though is your emotional support when he is feeling down. If you get upset whenever he tells you his problems, it won’t be long before he stops opening up to you.

2. Venture a solution to his problem –
When you understand his problem, try venturing a solution that might work. You don’t have to give him a foolproof solution, just something which seems workable according to you. There is a possibility that he may not have considered a point view that you can. Even if he finds your solution non-feasible, he will appreciate your help and support. When you try to give a solution he will know that you are trying to help.

3. Give him a head massage –
He’ll really thank you for giving him a soothing head massage when he is feeling tensed. Scientifically, a massage helps improve the blood circulation and relaxes the mind per se. Physical touch can be very soothing especially when one is feeling really low because it shows there is someone who really cares.

4. Take him somewhere relaxing –
If he is feeling stressed out or down, you can take him to some place which is naturally relaxing. A beach, a hill top, a garden or lake, can be very soothing when one is feeling stressed out. You can drive your boyfriend down to one of these places and just sit with him there for a while. He will really appreciate your concern and help. Spending time in the natural surroundings usually helps people get relief from stress.

5. Let him know you will always be there for him
There is nothing more comforting to a human heart than unconditional love. If you are only there for him when he is happy and successful, and maintain your distance when he is feeling low, he won’t be able to trust your love completely. When you are committed to someone, it’s important to go the full distance. Come rain or hail, he should feel that your presence will always be there in his life.

6. Just saying something heartfelt like –
“Don’t worry, I am always there for you”, is all it takes to cheer anyone up. These are some workable ways to cheer up your boyfriend, but the motivation should always grow out of genuine love and concern. It’s difficult to find true love these days where everyone’s only concerned about what one can get out of a relationship. But true love does exist and is seen manifest in many deep relationships. There is nothing quite as beautiful and soothing as the touch and compassion stemming out of genuine love. It has the power to sooth the most troubled mind.

okeh.done!let practice it..gud luck!