hehe..hi!its not to late to wish all of u, Happy new year rite?hows ur day?weekend?haha..i really appreciate the last weekend where i went to my bf home. His mom and dad asked me to enjoyed my weekend there. Act i really suprised and nervous gile bab la..ye la, for those who know the story before this will understand it.rite?hehe..but, Alhamdulillah.. For now, everything was follow on our track..eh.btol la kan?hehe.. For Mr.Azhari @ my lovely bf, i really love u so0 much. Thanks for all those things. Lets start to our plan. Takut tak cukup mase lak nt!hehe..
Also for my family and becoming family, love u all to much too!Mak, Kak Yat, Azim, Irfan, Pcik, Mcik, Arif and Amir!
ok, back to my title. Let learn how to cheer up your boyfriend while he getting stressed!
Men are usually stressed out due to performance related issues in their jobs, studies or finances, there are many other causes of stress too. Here are few tips on what you can do to cheer up your boyfriend when he is in the blues or stressed out.
1-Don’t get alarmed when he is stressed –
Many girls get fearful or upset when they see their boyfriend in a bad mood. You need to give him support by staying cool and composed. Don’t make things worse by taking it personally. That last thing he wants when he is stressed is for you to pick a fight with him. Guys are pretty adept at handling their own problems, what he will appreciate though is your emotional support when he is feeling down. If you get upset whenever he tells you his problems, it won’t be long before he stops opening up to you.
2. Venture a solution to his problem –
When you understand his problem, try venturing a solution that might work. You don’t have to give him a foolproof solution, just something which seems workable according to you. There is a possibility that he may not have considered a point view that you can. Even if he finds your solution non-feasible, he will appreciate your help and support. When you try to give a solution he will know that you are trying to help.
3. Give him a head massage –
He’ll really thank you for giving him a soothing head massage when he is feeling tensed. Scientifically, a massage helps improve the blood circulation and relaxes the mind per se. Physical touch can be very soothing especially when one is feeling really low because it shows there is someone who really cares.
4. Take him somewhere relaxing –
If he is feeling stressed out or down, you can take him to some place which is naturally relaxing. A beach, a hill top, a garden or lake, can be very soothing when one is feeling stressed out. You can drive your boyfriend down to one of these places and just sit with him there for a while. He will really appreciate your concern and help. Spending time in the natural surroundings usually helps people get relief from stress.
5. Let him know you will always be there for him –
There is nothing more comforting to a human heart than unconditional love. If you are only there for him when he is happy and successful, and maintain your distance when he is feeling low, he won’t be able to trust your love completely. When you are committed to someone, it’s important to go the full distance. Come rain or hail, he should feel that your presence will always be there in his life.
6. Just saying something heartfelt like –
“Don’t worry, I am always there for you”, is all it takes to cheer anyone up. These are some workable ways to cheer up your boyfriend, but the motivation should always grow out of genuine love and concern. It’s difficult to find true love these days where everyone’s only concerned about what one can get out of a relationship. But true love does exist and is seen manifest in many deep relationships. There is nothing quite as beautiful and soothing as the touch and compassion stemming out of genuine love. It has the power to sooth the most troubled mind.
okeh.done!let practice it..gud luck!
Thursday, January 13, 2011
Wednesday, December 8, 2010
gedik pulak rase nak menaip kat sini kan.even takde orang bace pon, bia la.tulisan hanya untuk suka-suka..bukan untuk meraih simpati sekalipon berkongsi suka duka.cewahh..opss!terlebey sudaa.jangan la terase ye..hee
ok berbalik pada niat asal,untuk kategori menyampah tahun ni;
erk..btol ke words yg aku gne ni.hehe..lantak la kan.ape kesah..bossy everywhere means cam sesetengah orang ni,sume tempat nak jadi bos.sume tempat nak goyang kaki je,ingt ape.kite ni memang dilahirkan untuk jadi 'kuli' die seumur hidup ke.penat je aku di bela dr kecik sampai besar,last2 jadi kuli ko je kan.pe kes??
hee..yang ni plak.mule2 kte cam kesian jugak la kan.tambahan aku ni plak mmg jenis yg cepat kesian ng org.punye la terpikir2.ape yang aku patut buat untuk tolong die, last2 die camtu jugak.jenuh aku tgk.lame2 sampai mual da.adui..bangun la.bangun la cepat.dont show that u are so weak!!banyak lagi org bermasalah lam dunia ni.agi truk pon melambak2..life too short to regret la dear!
arghh..yang ni memang paling menyampah.ape hal la yang nk dengki sangat ngan orang lain.tolong la..bia je la kan org laen pon nak bahagia jugak.mesti nak ade jugak rase dengki tu.bajet mcm bagus sangat.cakap penuh adab dan sopan.padahallll..ohh...terlalu busuk hatimu itu.da dapat bace la sume tu..
4)cakap xserupa bikin
yg ni menyampah+kelakar..setiap kali aku face mende ni.mesti rase nak tergelak terbahak2.nak terkeluar jantung pon ade.da sah2 mende tu cam tak betul,nak jugak menang.pastu mule la reason yang diberi tu tak ley blah.tak logik!macam ni la orang cakap,tak guna menegakkan benang yang basah.last2 jatuh jugak kan???
5)"ketuk kepala orang,terketuk kepala sendiri"
haha..cam pening gak kan peribahasa aku tu.tapi maksud die camni la..sibuk pasal orang sane sini.padahal,hal diri sendiri pon macam tu.kesiankan??ade la sorg manusia ni,sibuk canang sane sini cerita/perihal orang.tak baek la.tak bagus la.gedik la.sume laa..tapi snanye diri sendiri yang macam tu,tak nak pulak sedar2.pelik!padan la kne tipu.perangai pun cam ape je da..takde de org nk kesian ng ko.orang ckap 'padan muka' lagik ade la..
ish2..cam emo je lak aku taip pasal ni kan.tapi ni semua yang jadi depan mate aku.ade lagik snanye.tapi malas nak cite.tak sempat nak taip sume2 tu.
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